Thursday, February 25, 2016

who I have to be....

You can be the most beautiful person in the world and everybody sees light and rainbows when they look at you, but if you yourself don't know it, all of that doesn't even matter. Every second that you spend on doubting your worth, every moment that you use to criticize yourself; is a second of your life wasted, is a moment of your life thrown away. It's not like you have forever, so don't waste any of your seconds, don't throw even one of your moments away.  The person in life that you will always be with the most, is yourself. Because even when you are with others, you are still with yourself, too! When you wake up in the morning, you are with yourself, laying in bed at night you are with yourself, walking down the street in the sunlight you are with yourself.What kind of person do you want to walk down the street with? What kind of person do you want to wake up in the morning with? What kind of person do you want to see at the end of the day before you fall asleep? Because that person is yourself, and it's your responsibility to be that person you want to be with. I know I want to spend my life with a person who knows how to let things go, who's not full of hate, who's able to smile and be carefree. So that's who I have to be.” 

Wednesday, February 24, 2016

life is a blessing ......

People ask me why & how am i smiling  and laughing all the time. Ohhhh!!! well Yeah  in my heart there is something which wants to flow in the eye , but my soul diverts that something towards my lips and makes them like they are smiling all the time.
 You may have hundreds of reason to cry, but you too have thousands of reason to smile and its up to you, what would you like choose,  whether  to smile over the reasons to cry or keep crying and cursing whole of your life, though sometimes it is difficult to hold on, but trust me its not impossible, Its magical , when you are fighting a battle with your own heart, and the pleasure of being a winner in the battle  ohhhhhh YES!!!!! beyond the any pleasure. I believe that true prosperity is in enriching your heart with love, courage, gratitude & forgiveness. What people have done to you is really important and you can not control that but what you are doing with yourself is what makes all the difference and much more important. If you cannot treat yourself with all love & care, if you yourself can not give the treat of rejoice to your heart then NO ONE ELSE too, I am repeating IF YOU CANNOT TREAT YOUR SELF WITH ALL THE LOVE & RESPECT which  YOU ARE EXPECTING FROM OTHER THEN NO ONE ELSE CAN NEVER TOO. So next time you before you complain that someone has left you in pain just think that its you only who has decided to remain in pain even though you have the choice to overcome. Be the boss of your own life, you only you have all the rights to make yourself happy and no one else. Life will embrace you in a manner like your mum used to cover you from all the sides with the quilt in winter again and again. Let the life play with you, just participate doesn't matter you loose or win, If your heart is heavy let the tears roll down on your cheeks, it feels awesome trust me :). Laugh as much as you can ,  as louder as possible, Make other laugh, make someone feel special (not always your GF/BF lol). Life is blessing , and you are lucky if  you are able to take the next breath, Feel how blessed is to be alive, live it & love it. This world is wonderful and you have all the rights to be happy, loved and blessed. KEEP SMILING